Sam Sparro 

Sex and the City  movie is out in australia next week, one of my friends already invite me to the premier with a ticket. I am looking forward to seeing the happy ending. It brought up the memories when I wached the drama 4 years ago, I became a big fan of the 4 girl pals.Their relationship stories reflex everyone's life. What impress me most is it doesn't matter how many wrong guys they had. They still brave in love. There are a few stories I would like to share with you. Carrie is a fearless single girl. The eternal single girl had her share of romances, chronicled in her weekly column, but the truest love story is the one she wrote for herself. Bad luck and messy breakups were de rigueur in Carrie's life. By surviving the pitfalls — a Manolo-mugging, a computer crash, and a very embarrassing fashion fall — Carrie gained the confidence and strength to continue her search for true love. "The most exciting, challenging, and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself," she said. "And if you find someone to love the you you love, well, that's just fabulous." I totally agree with this part. You have to love yourself, so that other people can love you.even if no one is there,you should still enjoy your fabulous life fearlessly. Here is what happen when you compromise yourself to adapt the imaginary Mr right.Hot furniture designer Aidan was everything Carrie thought she wanted in a man: emotionally available, honest, and ready to commit. Aidan wanted Carrie to meet his parents, have the keys to his apartment, and eventually be his wife. She attempted to change by quitting smoking (and nixing her addiction to Mr. Big), giving country life a shot, and wearing his engagement ring around her neck. But no matter how hard Carrie tried, she couldn't commit to any of it. While Aidan seemed perfect on paper, he wasn't the ideal guy for Carrie. What you learn from it, never change or lose yourself for a man. you are who you are.vice vera, dont force your partner to change for you. he is who he is. he is not going to become who you want him to become. Of course,when talk about sex and the city, you won't miss Mr Big. With Carrie and Big, Sure, Carrie might have done some of the chasing, but in the end it was Mr. Big who showed up at her door the day she left New York City for Paris. Angry that his timing was always off, she screamed, "Forget you know my number! In fact, forget you know my name!" But he didn't give up. He called to tell her he loved her, and fortunately, Charlotte was there to answer his desperate call. The next day, he met the ladies for brunch and admitted, "You're the loves of her life, and a guy would be lucky to come in fourth." With their blessing, Mr. Big went to Paris to get "their" girl. Please dont chase him or her unless he or she is ready. let them chase you. Finally, Samantha and Smith, Samantha's dating philosophy: "I'm a trysexual. I'll try anything once." Her only rule was to never fall in love. She was so set in her man-eating ways that when she scouted and seduced a gorgeous waiter at a raw food restaurant, she didn't even ask his name. She encouraged the struggling young actor to play out his sexual fantasies and took him under her wing professionally, changing his name to Smith Jerrod and making him the Absolut Hunk. Somewhere between sex and stardom, Samantha fell in love and eventually confessed to Smith, "You've meant more to me than any man I have ever known." when she been diagnoised with breast cancer, smith still stick around and support her with love. To samantha or anyone who fear of love, dont be afraid of love, be fearless in love, if you choose the right person, love is the only thing really matters no matter what they say, so please be brave in love. we will always enjoy the accompany and commitment especially when you dont feel being alone.

Sex and the city, the love is in the air.

MILAN, 2008— One strong trend that is coming out is that masculinity is back.

For the past few seasons, I have been looking for what will be the new silhouette that will define at least the first two decades of the 21st century. During the Spring 2008 season, menswear designers were experimenting with new materials, hence, I thought that the it will be technology, as in development of new or smart fabrics will be the path that men’s fashion will go.

For the past few years, men's fashions have forgotten the most important element of menswear, i.e., the MAN himself. In short, seeing the strong male this season, it is actually refreshing to see him emerge again after years of metrosexuality and pencil thin silhouettes, though it was revolutionary when it was introduced, it already had its time.

Though every other person in the planet is male, sales of menswear compared to womenswear has a 35 – 65 or 40 to 60 ratio. Are men buying less clothes than women? Or, are women buying more clothes because they have more to choose from compared to the choices that men have? If we look at the fashion calendar, more days are given to womenswear than menswear. Case in point, in both Milan and Paris, the menswear season are 4 days only, while the womenswear season is 10 days.In New York and London, it is almost non-existent. Menswear designers in New York have to be content with being featured during the first day of the season, which by the way, they even have to share the day with womenswear designer.

So, seeing a strong showing in Milan, with designers focusing on THE MAN and not just playing with the silhouettes to be able to sell them is like a breath of fresh air. Maybe, the designers are right. We have to focus on the wearer before we can create a new silhouette for him to wear. Here are my favourites: